In Which A Child Is Born

[disclaimer:  this contains Gabe's birth story- told by a nurse. So normal stuff like poop and throw up doesn't gross me out... so there may be more detail in here than other stories.]

Sunday, August 19th (his actual due date) as we drove home from church I felt “wet” all of a sudden.  Upon further investigation we came to the conclusion my water had broken.   This surprised both of us. We were prepared to wait another week for the little guy to make his entrance.  Fortunately, the hospital bag was mostly all ready.  Once we admitted to ourselves what was actually happening we told the family wouldn’t be coming to dinner and called the doctor.  I wasn’t having much in the way of contractions so we chilled at home for a few hours, I tried to nap, ate a good dinner, and made it to the hospital by 6 pm.  Since my water had been broken for 6 hours at this point, and labor hadn’t begun on its own, I was started on pitocin.  Contractions started quickly, but they were not intense at first.  We watched a movie and as it ended our doula met us at the hospital.  As the contractions got stronger I walked around the halls with Bjorn, received massages, sat on a yoga ball, threw up a couple times, and labored in the tub for a while. I was progressing slowly, it was a very long night.  Our doula was awesome. I am so glad I had her there for support; especially when Bjorn got too tired.  Around 1:30 in the morning he finally crashed from exhaustion and slept for the rest of the night.  A few hours later with worsening contractions and fatigue setting in I happily opted for an epidural.  I seemed to have gotten the best kind as well- I could still move my legs and hips a bit.   I felt the pressure of contractions, but not the pain.  I was able to sleep for a couple hours.  Around 6 am Bjorn woke up and gave me a back rub in the quiet hours of the morning, our last few minutes together as a couple.  The nurses had been great all night and kept me informed with the plan. Our doctor was on her way to the hospital around 7 am, so they were going to have me start pushing.  I pushed for just over 2 hours- with lots of encouragement and support.  Gabriel was born at 10:02 am on Monday, August 20th.    What a relief to finally have him here!  I loved holding him on my chest and in my arms right after his birth.  What a miracle!   Because my labor was so long there was a concern for infection.  Gabe was given antibiotics for a couple days, but all was well. I am grateful for this amazing experience that made me a mother, and for all the people  (husband, nurses, techs, doula, doctors) who helped bring him into the world.   
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Introducing....

Gabriel James Graham

Born Monday, August 20th, 2012  at 10:02 am at  LDS hospital

7 lbs. 6 oz. and 21 1/2 inches long

Mommy is thrilled to have him on the outside of her body and not being pregnant anymore.  She has recovered fairly quickly after giving birth.

We  are adjusting to this new role of "parent".   It is overwhelming, wonderful, amazing, and exhausting.  Mostly, we are just happy he is here, and he is a healthy, easy-going, good-looking boy!






 









Perks of Pregnancy

Easily, an entire 8 paragraph blog post could be written about all the woes of pregnancy.  Especially in the last trimester.  The aches and pains and worries and discomforts....A woman's constantly changing body and the tiny parasite closely associated with it are nothing to be trifled with.

In leiu of going in to great details of everything wrong with my life right now and why I am counting down the hours until I get my body back; I intend to instead focus on the positive- and list the many many good things I have going for me.


  • awesome pedicure!  Feels good, looks good, is good for you!  happy way to pamper swollen feet
  • eating chocolate pudding multiple times per day
  • guzzling gatorade like there's no tomorrow (weird eh?  gatorade is my drink of choice these days)
  • daily back rubs and foot rubs from my husband
  • the cutest nursery on the block!  
  • baby is happy and healthy, measuring "perfectly" and right on track
  • I still get comments of looking cute (though I may not feel it anymore)
  • co-workers go out of their way to help me with tasks like running down 3 flights of stairs to retrieve formula
  • my hubby has mowed the lawn ALL summer- I haven't touched the lawn mower once
  • having an excuse to eat at whatever time of day I feel like it. 
  • friends and family are generously offering the use of their pool anytime 



we had trouble taking some underwater pictures due to my abnormal buoyancy 
39 weeks! 

Birthday Boy


Bjorn may not have gotten the best birthday this year. With a very pregnant wife who just returned from an exhausting week at girls camp- it was all I could do to stay awake for the weekend.  And I didn't succeed very well at that.

After I napped on Saturday we went to Bombay House for dinner. Sunday, his actual birthday, he made breakfast for  both of us. We might have rushed to get to church early because I was speaking (about girls camp) that day.
He DID get a bit of a celebration after my nap Sunday afternoon.  Thanks to our parents for fun packages of birthday gifts, and to my planning ahead abilities I had SOMETHING ready.  I did manage to make him a cheesecake to celebrate at Sunday Dinner Club that night. And he had a group of friends/family to play his newly acquired favorite game.

What a trooper! I love you Bjorn!

 Recent adventures of Bjorn:









I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend

Three years and counting!   To celebrate our anniversary we headed down to Cedar City, Utah, home of the Utah Shakespaereran festival.

The three hour drive was made easier on my pregnant body by stopping at Cove Fort on the way down (a fun pit-stop, I hadn't been there in years)

We saw Les Miserables and Merry Wives of Windsor. Both were incredible.  We tried to pick a favorite but it is so hard to compare the two.   They are in very different categories.  Les Mis has powerful, emotional music (did you know it is technically an opera?)  and Merry Wives is full of hillarious quips and delightful costumes.

We also ejoyed the greenshow, apple tarts, Milt's steakhouse, the cold hotel pool (well, Bjorn enjoyed this part) and watching the olympics.  We found the "Homestead Frontier" museum (or something like that) and saw lots of old stuff and learned cool random facts about past pioneer life in Cedar City.

random petting zoo at a gas station in the middle of no where


cove fort 

lunch at a happy sandwich place 



inside the stagecoach 


the first "carry things through snow"-er  (skiers included) 







37 weeks prego! having fun with my shadow
I love the relaxation that comes with our "getaways", especially knowing this one is the last for a while.  Coming back to reality is always difficult.  Most of all, I am grateful to have my wonderful husband to go through all of it with me.

Warriors of Light

Yes, I spent four days at Girls camp 35 weeks pregnant. Yes, it was hot. Yes, I was exausted.  And Yes, I enjoyed it.

Being the assistant camp director was a lot more work than I had anticipated! But I loved staying busy all summer and planning fun crafts and menus and activites, reminiscing on my girls camp days, and getting to know the girls. We had twenty-eight 12-18 year olds, 5 YW leaders, and 2 Priesthood leaders at camp all week.   Camp was a semi-secluded cabin on Bear Lake with a field for the girls tents, bathrooms for everyone, a bed for me, and a garage for eating, cooking, and crafts.  A different experience, but hey- different is good.  If there is one thing I have learned about girls camp it is that no year is ever the same!  There is no such thing as a "normal" girls camp.  

the warriors of light 

The final casualty report:

The injuries:  many minor sunburns, a couple bug bites, creating a dry dressing for an old dog bite, nothing this "camp nurse" couldn't handle.  After our day at the lake as we leaders were doing tuck-ins most of the tents were asleep (spending 8 hours at the lake worse the girls out!) and the one with 12 girls in it had half the crew awake. As we started to talk about the day we realized that more than loving conversation their sunburns needed tending too.  We passed around water, ibuprofen, tylenol, dinner rolls, and cool rags (met with relief) until the majority fell asleep.

The spoils: spending a whole day at bear lake was a definite highlight.   We were certified beach bums!  With the water trampoline and powerboat and water weenie, the girls had a blast!  Leaders too.  I enjoyed the boat but didn't think baby would take to kindly to a water weenie adventure at this point.

The splendor:  My favorite spiritual moment was our "sunrise devotional".  Waking the girls up at 5:45 is not easy, but led perfectly into my part of the schpiel:  ARIS-ing (as in "arise and shine forth" ) is not always easy.  Most girls said they had never watched a sunrise before.  I admit it had been a while for me as well. What a peaceful way to enjoy nature.   If you have not watched a sunrise this summer- get on it!

The hurdle(s):  1) no open fires allowed. period.  uh-oh.  we improvised.  2) tent drama.  We might have overlooked the fact that girls' stuff takes up just as much as girls themsevles.  Needless to say, a good soul volunteered to take a solitary tent.  Don't worry, it worked out.  really.

"Skittles- taste the values"  (leaders "commercial" skit)
The triumph:  tin can lanterns turned into a success! I somehow got put in charge of this craft... having never done it myself I had B help me make a quick one before going to camp so I could show the girls the idea. I needn't worry.  Once glancing at the prototype their ideas took flight. They decorated the cans with scrapbook paper, feathers, ribbon, jewels, etc.  Getting a little more excited for that part than actually punching holes (which is a lot of work).  On the last "fireside" (3 electric lanterns sitting on tubs)  The leaders went around the circle of camp chairs and lit each lantern one by one... it was pretty cool.



morning roll call and devotional 
an early morning breakfast crew (8:00 really isn't THAT early- but it sure felt like it) 


the craft-master station


beachin' it on Bear Lake 

"Arise and Shine, I'm defying gravity..."  (the leaders skit) 
the hikers. No, I am not in this group.  Teddy and I took a well deserved nap 
The goofs:  when all the first years fell asleep during testimony meeting.  seriously. I've never had that happen before.  I was belly laughing internally...  Especially when an older girl was talking about them (kindly) in her testimony and mentioned "well I hope they dream about this".  Like I said, we wore them out.

The prize:  friendships!  Between the girls AND the leaders, I'm glad I had the chance to get to know these amazing women I work with better.  And of course- strengthened testimonies.


top 12 reasons we decided to have a kid

I wrote this a while ago and found it in my scripture case this week.  It still cracked me up a bit so I thought I'd share:

Reason #1-  Disneyland is infinitely more fun with children

#2- We have 3 bedrooms in our new house, and there are only 2 of us.

#3- I've been taking care of kids and wanting my own since I was 10.  Literally.  Probably even before that.  Also, I get lots of practice taking care of 2-3 kids at a time at work all day every day, so I figure I can handle at least that many.... someday.

#4-  Bjorn and I are really good at painting and just want more opportunities to paint more of our house

#5- Having an excuse to eat all the time (whilst prego) is a wonderful thing

#6- I've baby-sat Clawson cousing for hundreds of hours and figure at least one of them will be looking for a chance to repay me....

#7- Bjorn is DETERMINED to carry on Graham genes by having a boy

#8- We're close to running out of FHE ideas for 2 people

#9- I like to name things.  And having a baby is a perfect opportunity to pick THREE names.

#10- Family reunions are infinitely more fun with babies around

#11- Our friends' kids could always use more playmates

#12- I'm dying to do 5 loads of laundry a day