one spoiled kid! (and mamma!)

The earth seems to be filled with wonderful people who are almost as eager to meet baby Graham as I am!  If not the whole earth, at least this little corner (UT to WA) of the U.S.

Baby G and I have had 2 baby showers- both were marvelous!   We felt loved and had so much fun!

First was "Build a Library for Baby" with my family.  Grandma Bu's house was decked out like the little kids section of a library... books books books everywhere!  Dolls reading books, stuffed animals reading books, even all the food was book themed.  "hungry caterpillar fruit"  "little boy blueberrry muffins", etc.  too cute!  There was an awesome punch bowl of "bubble bath"  with rubber duckies swimming in it.
We played medical/pregnancy literacy game (I won... j/k I was disqualified and not allowed to play) and "name that classic children's book".  Guess what most of the gifts were- books!  Board books, baby books, big books, classic books, traditional books, series books, funny books, pop-up books- you name it!   At the end my sister had name-plate-like stickers to put in each book. "From _______  with love"  (or something to that effect). Each person filled it out and put it in the book they had given baby.    I am so excited to always remember these amazing aunts, sisters, grandmas, and cousins whenever I read to our little guy.  My mom skyped in for most of the event, then said she felt inspired and wanted to be a part of it so she ordered a bookshelf for baby's room.  Perfect!


pregnant me with Grandma Bu

sisters!... and chicken soup with rice :)
Next was "Duckie's' baby shower.  I have had the nickname Duckie since my sophomore year at BYU when I "randomly"/luckily ended up with the most fabulous set of roommates and extended friends.  ahhh, the good ol' days.... The point is- we are still all friends, most of us live in Utah, and I am one of the last to start having kids.  Besides the fact that we love any excuse to get together, we also love making party foods and eating. Who could ask for anything more?  I enjoy being with these amazing ladies and feeling their love and friendship.  Also since most of them are moms already I truly appreciate their advice I am so excited to finally be part of the mommy club!

Did I mention it was "duckie" themed?  We had ducks floating in bubble bath, duckie cupcakes, duckie cookies, duck "food" (fruit and chips?  okay, this might be a stretch... I don't think that's the connection Heidi was going for  but I'm making it anyway).  And cute tiny cakes with blue icing and duck on top for each guest to take home. Good thing all baby boys and girls like ducks and can be dressed in multiple duckie outfits!  (I do have quite a few duckie outfits already that I am certain baby G is excited to wear.)

I am especially happy to be starting to feel prepared and organized and maybe actually a teensy bit ready for this baby to come!

Logan- why not?

No, this doesn't refer to us moving.  Rather, just a quick, spur-o-the-moment getaway vacation.

 Since Bjorn is not working I found 2 weekdays off with not much planned and before I knew it we booked at night at the Anniversary Inn in Logan.  "Pirates Paradise" our room was called. Not the most romantic, but definitely the best deal!  And realky, what's not to love about the Anniversary Inn?

Chocolate chip cookies at check-in, cheesecake and sparkling cider in your room, a big screen TV (very rare for us), a large jetted tub, and a comfy bed.  What more could one ask for?  (Besides an amazing spouse to share it all with).  Maybe a pool. We solved that by going to the community pool for a few hours.  Water slides I could enjoy and diving boards I couldn't (but Bjorn did!).  Fun kiddie areas, lots of people watching and SUN.  

We treated ourselves to Olive Garden for dinner.  A full gift card meant we could get appetizers AND entrees- a double plus!!  We left with happy hearts and very full bellies.
While in Logan we also met up with some old friends, toured the temple grounds, drove by the Brigham City temple, watched 3 movies in our room, and  took pictures of my pregnant shadow.

I am not always very good with last minute, non-planned things, especially vacations.  I think the nearness and realness of baby G's arrival makes me happy to take whatever vacation I can get!

"Nesting"


first we paint....
then we sew....



ta-da!! 

add a crib....

clothes...



...and a bookshelf



closer to being done! 

Next best thing

Bjorn's parents were able to spend an elongated weekend with Just Us in May.  They flew down to spend time with us, see our new house, play, eat, and help with baby preparations.  We accomplished all of the above, and I enjoyed the personal attention.... most visitors/family don't come to Utah just to see us!

Bjorn and I worked half of the days they were here (alternating days), and every day was full of something adventurous, with one or both of us and his parents.  We shopped at Park City outlets, Bjorn and his Dad test drove cars.... Deb helped me make curtains for the baby's room (THANK YOU!  I couldn't have done it alone!).  They drove up Big Cottonwood one afternoon and found some snow, we played games, did some "family history" (telling stories) and ate out a lot.  We were a wee bit spoiled.

B and I were very very happy to show them our home and our (temporary??) home town.   It sort of made us feel grown up.  

Pardon me for the lack of photos... Costco  photo center and my mac are not agreeing on how to download the pictures I want!

Pregnancy Milestones

21 weeks:  while on our trip to Boston and beyond I felt the little guy move on his own every now and then, without having to stop and search for the movement.  Also, Bjorn could feel him move for the first time.  Another milestone (for me) is that I actually looked pregnant!  In most everything I wore (check out the pictures to see what you think).  I even had random lady at the sweatshirt souvenior shop in Fallmouth comment on me being pregnant.  This was big progress. No one besides family had ever mentioned it.  This is important to me because I WANT to look pregnant and it's taken a long time to get to this point.



27 weeks: starting at this point I actually FEEL pregnant.  I began to experience a little bit of heartburn, and some braxton-hicks contractions.  I started to feel a little bit off balance.  Exercising is noticeably different.... carrying around a few extra pounds and all.   I finally convinced myself to try prenatal yoga since running didn't work so well.  I have been  hungry more often. Not all the time- but I can tell when he's going through a growth spurt!  I can sleep fairly well, though he has woken me up with kicking once or twice.

Here's a couple pix from our "backyard maternity photo shoot":





okay- you can't even see baby in this picture... but it's Bjorns favorite so  I said I'd put it up.
I think it's the way my eyes look.



Now I am officially in my third trimester!  Let the countdown begin!  Only 12 more weeks (hopefully) until we get to meet our little boy!

Mothers Day Surprise

Who has ever been able to surprise their mom for mothers day? I mean, really.  It's a Sunday, set aside to celebrate them. They kind of know what's coming. And  I'm sure they appreciate it.  But wouldn't it be wonderful to  actually give Mom some amazing surprise?  This year, my sisters and I were able to do just that.

KC (child #4) was planning to drive up to our dear home in Anacortes, WA with her boyfriend for a roommates wedding on mothers day weekend.  My other married sister (E, child #3) and I mused about how fun it would be to go up to WA with her and be there for Mothers day.  Alas, school and work and husbands and church callings made it seem like an impossible dream.  Suddenly things fell into place.... one of us would drive and one fly.  We told Dad the plan, not sure if we should let mom know or not.  Dad said "You can't keep it a secret from your mother!"  and we took that as our challenge. Of course we could!  maybe.  probably.  We think.  The end result: YES we did keep it a secret, but it was hard and I am sort of surprised she didn't find out.

Flashback to thursday before Mothers Day.  KC, boy, and I drove all day to blessed WA, and picked up E at the airport at 6 pm. We flew (figuratively) to Anacortes, so excited to be with our family, and the house was empty.  Only the puppy greeted us.  After the longest 20 minutes of my life Mom, Dad, and little sister (child #6) came home from dinner.  Mom walked over to give KC a a hug and E and I jumped out from the hallway with "Happy mothers day" signs.  I had never seen her so surprised!  She was so happy too!  She gave us all big hugs and kept saying "my girls! my girls!"  It was a wonderful moment I hope to never forget.

The rest of the weekend has been summed up nicely in various other blogs and emails.  We had a very packed Anacortes weekend and savored every minute. I skipped out on the roommates wedding (but made it to the reception) and spent sometime with my hubby's family instead.  It was fun to see my cute sister-in-law and attend her baby shower.  We are both expecting boys this summer! 


Other Anae highlights:
  • kayaking with porpoises (SOOO cool!!... and seals and a bald eagle)
  • sailing the new little boat (Ariel) around Campbell Lake
  • driving frantically back and forth to Mount Vernon every day
  • nice wedding reception by the water
  • planting flowers in mom's "mothers day garden"
  • walking the dogs
  • stairs beach and THE tree at WA park.  It was so warm I didn't need a jacket!   That's saying something!  We had the best weather all week.
  • small hike through ACFL
  • traditional mothers day dinner (tri tip!)
  • babecue and smores at the beach
  • semi-family pictures in the back yard
  • talking, reading, laughing
  • playing board games together
  • Maddie's 4 mothers helping her get ready for school.
  • doing hair and make-up in the bathroom with all my sisters (this hasn't happened FOREVER and might not ever happen again)
  • fancy brunch at a cute cafe with just the girls
  • musical performance for mom (we made her cry)
  • Gavin always asking to drive the mitsubishi to practice stick shift 
E and I are in the blue kayak.
The porpoises were less than 5 feet from us! It was very exciting and  a bit nervous-ing 



Maddie and her puppy- Hercules

My face is covered by the sail. I'm at the tiller.  It was great fun!  Teddy loved it too. 

As much as I missed my husband, I loved being with my family.  Likely because I knew a time like this will likely never happen again.  Our baby will be born soon (the first grandkid in my family), and other grandkids will soon follow I am sure.  More missions and weddings loom in the Murray family future.  Real jobs, moving to various states, attending college all over the place.  It's getting busy.   Which is why it was so wonderful to take time to just be with my sisters and parents and enjoy being together.

Babymoon back East

Lucky us! a 9-day babymoon in New England. Does life get much better than this? May I also add that I was 21 weeks pregnant and felt GREAT the whole time?
We wanted to see as much as we could in as many states as possible. Emphasis on beaches, lighthouses, bed and breakfast (my request) and unknown/unplanned activities (Bjorn's request).

The low-down:

Day #1- arrive in Manchester, New Hamphire after a full day of flying. Super 8 did NOT have a pool.

Day #2- drive to Boston! our trusty GPS named Tom took us to the Riverside station and we rode the Tinto the city. I had to convince Bjorn he really did NOT want to drive around IN the city, he finally agreed and later in the day told me I was right. We hopped off at Park Station and explored the Boston Commons and Public Gardens before following the Freedom trail east to the ocean. We saw a ton of historical stuff. I love how the old buildings are mixed in with brand new buildings. Being there helped me learn and internalize some of our nations history that I'm sure I was taught at some point in time. Both of us really enjoyed the creepy cemetaries.



Day #3- Sturbridge Village: we spent a lot more time here than I thought! After talking to people who had visited various tourist sites in MA, this one came highly recommended. It is large, 35 or so houses/shops/buildings and has everything needed to sustain life (physically, religiously, socially, politically) in 1600 colonial America. The printing press is a favorite of mine. So neat and orderly... and you get to make books all day! Bjorn loved the blacksmith (they compared skills and instruments) and the working mills. He spent over an hour at just the carding mill and sawmill (I was done after 10 minutes). I'm sure if we had actually lived in this time period we would own a mill.

 Day #4- Newport, Rhode Island (cool town) and Block island (desolated town). Block island is a hot tourist spot- in the summer. I thought the spring would mean less crowds. No. It means no crowds. which also means no shops, and very few hotels and restaurants open.  ero boats in the marinas. Can you blame us for spending 2 hours in the public library here? It was cold and windy by the time the ferry came to get us and I was ready to go. THEN Tom led us astray and couldn't find us a decent hotel. sad day.



Day #5- Cape Cod! We stumbled upon NOAA's headquarters, a great aquairum and some cute lighthouses. we took the scenic route to the other side of the island, played in the sand dunes, then back tracked to Hyannis for the night. I was tired of traveling and reserving our hotel only 24 hours before and not knowing exactly where we'd be the next day. With very minimal whining I was treated to a pedicure at the local mall and Ben and Jerry's ice cream.



Day#6- For church we joined the LDS on cape Cod (we both really love small branches and hope to be in one someday) and after lunch on the beach spent the day driving the Maine. We stopped in Boston to see the temple (difficult to find) and enjoyed our "engine-roasted-hot-dogs". complete with sandwich bread and leftover ketchup from Wendy's. We made it to our one and only bed and breakfast stop in Bath, Maine and enjoyed the royal treatment and "healthy" breakfast.



Day #7- Acadia National park impressed us with sandy beaches, rock cliffs, and amazing ocean island views. We were reminded of a Washington a wee bit. Once again- not crowded! We didn't even have to pay the park entrance fee! I was in heaven at the LL Bean outlet store and of course found something reasonable to buy. Dinner was Lobster. We'd been waiting our whole trip for this. Luckily we found a fabulous restaurant near our hotel in Bar Harbor and dined on huge whole lobster (Bjorn) and a perfectly sized lobster roll (me). I am not normally a seafood fan but I really do like lobster and would eat it again. Preferably fresh :)



Day #8- yoga in the park, a mini-hike on the carriage roads, and a long drive to our last lighthouse. saying good-bye to Maine we drove 5 hours to the White Mountains of New hampshire. With an internet page pulled up, some old pamphlets, and a little luck we found some amazing waterfalls to hike to, photograph, and climb up. I love being with my adventerous hubby! My pregnant body got a little tired after this adventure. As soon as the sun was down we left the park and hit a McDonald's. We also had our last ice cream at Friendly's



Day #9- fly home to Salt Lake via Detroit (cool water fountain). reminisce.