I'm lucky I'm in love with my best friend

Three years and counting!   To celebrate our anniversary we headed down to Cedar City, Utah, home of the Utah Shakespaereran festival.

The three hour drive was made easier on my pregnant body by stopping at Cove Fort on the way down (a fun pit-stop, I hadn't been there in years)

We saw Les Miserables and Merry Wives of Windsor. Both were incredible.  We tried to pick a favorite but it is so hard to compare the two.   They are in very different categories.  Les Mis has powerful, emotional music (did you know it is technically an opera?)  and Merry Wives is full of hillarious quips and delightful costumes.

We also ejoyed the greenshow, apple tarts, Milt's steakhouse, the cold hotel pool (well, Bjorn enjoyed this part) and watching the olympics.  We found the "Homestead Frontier" museum (or something like that) and saw lots of old stuff and learned cool random facts about past pioneer life in Cedar City.

random petting zoo at a gas station in the middle of no where


cove fort 

lunch at a happy sandwich place 



inside the stagecoach 


the first "carry things through snow"-er  (skiers included) 







37 weeks prego! having fun with my shadow
I love the relaxation that comes with our "getaways", especially knowing this one is the last for a while.  Coming back to reality is always difficult.  Most of all, I am grateful to have my wonderful husband to go through all of it with me.

Warriors of Light

Yes, I spent four days at Girls camp 35 weeks pregnant. Yes, it was hot. Yes, I was exausted.  And Yes, I enjoyed it.

Being the assistant camp director was a lot more work than I had anticipated! But I loved staying busy all summer and planning fun crafts and menus and activites, reminiscing on my girls camp days, and getting to know the girls. We had twenty-eight 12-18 year olds, 5 YW leaders, and 2 Priesthood leaders at camp all week.   Camp was a semi-secluded cabin on Bear Lake with a field for the girls tents, bathrooms for everyone, a bed for me, and a garage for eating, cooking, and crafts.  A different experience, but hey- different is good.  If there is one thing I have learned about girls camp it is that no year is ever the same!  There is no such thing as a "normal" girls camp.  

the warriors of light 

The final casualty report:

The injuries:  many minor sunburns, a couple bug bites, creating a dry dressing for an old dog bite, nothing this "camp nurse" couldn't handle.  After our day at the lake as we leaders were doing tuck-ins most of the tents were asleep (spending 8 hours at the lake worse the girls out!) and the one with 12 girls in it had half the crew awake. As we started to talk about the day we realized that more than loving conversation their sunburns needed tending too.  We passed around water, ibuprofen, tylenol, dinner rolls, and cool rags (met with relief) until the majority fell asleep.

The spoils: spending a whole day at bear lake was a definite highlight.   We were certified beach bums!  With the water trampoline and powerboat and water weenie, the girls had a blast!  Leaders too.  I enjoyed the boat but didn't think baby would take to kindly to a water weenie adventure at this point.

The splendor:  My favorite spiritual moment was our "sunrise devotional".  Waking the girls up at 5:45 is not easy, but led perfectly into my part of the schpiel:  ARIS-ing (as in "arise and shine forth" ) is not always easy.  Most girls said they had never watched a sunrise before.  I admit it had been a while for me as well. What a peaceful way to enjoy nature.   If you have not watched a sunrise this summer- get on it!

The hurdle(s):  1) no open fires allowed. period.  uh-oh.  we improvised.  2) tent drama.  We might have overlooked the fact that girls' stuff takes up just as much as girls themsevles.  Needless to say, a good soul volunteered to take a solitary tent.  Don't worry, it worked out.  really.

"Skittles- taste the values"  (leaders "commercial" skit)
The triumph:  tin can lanterns turned into a success! I somehow got put in charge of this craft... having never done it myself I had B help me make a quick one before going to camp so I could show the girls the idea. I needn't worry.  Once glancing at the prototype their ideas took flight. They decorated the cans with scrapbook paper, feathers, ribbon, jewels, etc.  Getting a little more excited for that part than actually punching holes (which is a lot of work).  On the last "fireside" (3 electric lanterns sitting on tubs)  The leaders went around the circle of camp chairs and lit each lantern one by one... it was pretty cool.



morning roll call and devotional 
an early morning breakfast crew (8:00 really isn't THAT early- but it sure felt like it) 


the craft-master station


beachin' it on Bear Lake 

"Arise and Shine, I'm defying gravity..."  (the leaders skit) 
the hikers. No, I am not in this group.  Teddy and I took a well deserved nap 
The goofs:  when all the first years fell asleep during testimony meeting.  seriously. I've never had that happen before.  I was belly laughing internally...  Especially when an older girl was talking about them (kindly) in her testimony and mentioned "well I hope they dream about this".  Like I said, we wore them out.

The prize:  friendships!  Between the girls AND the leaders, I'm glad I had the chance to get to know these amazing women I work with better.  And of course- strengthened testimonies.


top 12 reasons we decided to have a kid

I wrote this a while ago and found it in my scripture case this week.  It still cracked me up a bit so I thought I'd share:

Reason #1-  Disneyland is infinitely more fun with children

#2- We have 3 bedrooms in our new house, and there are only 2 of us.

#3- I've been taking care of kids and wanting my own since I was 10.  Literally.  Probably even before that.  Also, I get lots of practice taking care of 2-3 kids at a time at work all day every day, so I figure I can handle at least that many.... someday.

#4-  Bjorn and I are really good at painting and just want more opportunities to paint more of our house

#5- Having an excuse to eat all the time (whilst prego) is a wonderful thing

#6- I've baby-sat Clawson cousing for hundreds of hours and figure at least one of them will be looking for a chance to repay me....

#7- Bjorn is DETERMINED to carry on Graham genes by having a boy

#8- We're close to running out of FHE ideas for 2 people

#9- I like to name things.  And having a baby is a perfect opportunity to pick THREE names.

#10- Family reunions are infinitely more fun with babies around

#11- Our friends' kids could always use more playmates

#12- I'm dying to do 5 loads of laundry a day


one spoiled kid! (and mamma!)

The earth seems to be filled with wonderful people who are almost as eager to meet baby Graham as I am!  If not the whole earth, at least this little corner (UT to WA) of the U.S.

Baby G and I have had 2 baby showers- both were marvelous!   We felt loved and had so much fun!

First was "Build a Library for Baby" with my family.  Grandma Bu's house was decked out like the little kids section of a library... books books books everywhere!  Dolls reading books, stuffed animals reading books, even all the food was book themed.  "hungry caterpillar fruit"  "little boy blueberrry muffins", etc.  too cute!  There was an awesome punch bowl of "bubble bath"  with rubber duckies swimming in it.
We played medical/pregnancy literacy game (I won... j/k I was disqualified and not allowed to play) and "name that classic children's book".  Guess what most of the gifts were- books!  Board books, baby books, big books, classic books, traditional books, series books, funny books, pop-up books- you name it!   At the end my sister had name-plate-like stickers to put in each book. "From _______  with love"  (or something to that effect). Each person filled it out and put it in the book they had given baby.    I am so excited to always remember these amazing aunts, sisters, grandmas, and cousins whenever I read to our little guy.  My mom skyped in for most of the event, then said she felt inspired and wanted to be a part of it so she ordered a bookshelf for baby's room.  Perfect!


pregnant me with Grandma Bu

sisters!... and chicken soup with rice :)
Next was "Duckie's' baby shower.  I have had the nickname Duckie since my sophomore year at BYU when I "randomly"/luckily ended up with the most fabulous set of roommates and extended friends.  ahhh, the good ol' days.... The point is- we are still all friends, most of us live in Utah, and I am one of the last to start having kids.  Besides the fact that we love any excuse to get together, we also love making party foods and eating. Who could ask for anything more?  I enjoy being with these amazing ladies and feeling their love and friendship.  Also since most of them are moms already I truly appreciate their advice I am so excited to finally be part of the mommy club!

Did I mention it was "duckie" themed?  We had ducks floating in bubble bath, duckie cupcakes, duckie cookies, duck "food" (fruit and chips?  okay, this might be a stretch... I don't think that's the connection Heidi was going for  but I'm making it anyway).  And cute tiny cakes with blue icing and duck on top for each guest to take home. Good thing all baby boys and girls like ducks and can be dressed in multiple duckie outfits!  (I do have quite a few duckie outfits already that I am certain baby G is excited to wear.)

I am especially happy to be starting to feel prepared and organized and maybe actually a teensy bit ready for this baby to come!

Logan- why not?

No, this doesn't refer to us moving.  Rather, just a quick, spur-o-the-moment getaway vacation.

 Since Bjorn is not working I found 2 weekdays off with not much planned and before I knew it we booked at night at the Anniversary Inn in Logan.  "Pirates Paradise" our room was called. Not the most romantic, but definitely the best deal!  And realky, what's not to love about the Anniversary Inn?

Chocolate chip cookies at check-in, cheesecake and sparkling cider in your room, a big screen TV (very rare for us), a large jetted tub, and a comfy bed.  What more could one ask for?  (Besides an amazing spouse to share it all with).  Maybe a pool. We solved that by going to the community pool for a few hours.  Water slides I could enjoy and diving boards I couldn't (but Bjorn did!).  Fun kiddie areas, lots of people watching and SUN.  

We treated ourselves to Olive Garden for dinner.  A full gift card meant we could get appetizers AND entrees- a double plus!!  We left with happy hearts and very full bellies.
While in Logan we also met up with some old friends, toured the temple grounds, drove by the Brigham City temple, watched 3 movies in our room, and  took pictures of my pregnant shadow.

I am not always very good with last minute, non-planned things, especially vacations.  I think the nearness and realness of baby G's arrival makes me happy to take whatever vacation I can get!

"Nesting"


first we paint....
then we sew....



ta-da!! 

add a crib....

clothes...



...and a bookshelf



closer to being done! 

Next best thing

Bjorn's parents were able to spend an elongated weekend with Just Us in May.  They flew down to spend time with us, see our new house, play, eat, and help with baby preparations.  We accomplished all of the above, and I enjoyed the personal attention.... most visitors/family don't come to Utah just to see us!

Bjorn and I worked half of the days they were here (alternating days), and every day was full of something adventurous, with one or both of us and his parents.  We shopped at Park City outlets, Bjorn and his Dad test drove cars.... Deb helped me make curtains for the baby's room (THANK YOU!  I couldn't have done it alone!).  They drove up Big Cottonwood one afternoon and found some snow, we played games, did some "family history" (telling stories) and ate out a lot.  We were a wee bit spoiled.

B and I were very very happy to show them our home and our (temporary??) home town.   It sort of made us feel grown up.  

Pardon me for the lack of photos... Costco  photo center and my mac are not agreeing on how to download the pictures I want!

Pregnancy Milestones

21 weeks:  while on our trip to Boston and beyond I felt the little guy move on his own every now and then, without having to stop and search for the movement.  Also, Bjorn could feel him move for the first time.  Another milestone (for me) is that I actually looked pregnant!  In most everything I wore (check out the pictures to see what you think).  I even had random lady at the sweatshirt souvenior shop in Fallmouth comment on me being pregnant.  This was big progress. No one besides family had ever mentioned it.  This is important to me because I WANT to look pregnant and it's taken a long time to get to this point.



27 weeks: starting at this point I actually FEEL pregnant.  I began to experience a little bit of heartburn, and some braxton-hicks contractions.  I started to feel a little bit off balance.  Exercising is noticeably different.... carrying around a few extra pounds and all.   I finally convinced myself to try prenatal yoga since running didn't work so well.  I have been  hungry more often. Not all the time- but I can tell when he's going through a growth spurt!  I can sleep fairly well, though he has woken me up with kicking once or twice.

Here's a couple pix from our "backyard maternity photo shoot":





okay- you can't even see baby in this picture... but it's Bjorns favorite so  I said I'd put it up.
I think it's the way my eyes look.



Now I am officially in my third trimester!  Let the countdown begin!  Only 12 more weeks (hopefully) until we get to meet our little boy!