Working with people has it's perks

namely, the funny comments that come out of their mouths.  When you're stuck in a stressful situation see a different set of people everyday, who knows what you'll say next!

These are from a few chucklers from yesterday:

SCENE:  Toddler is making whiney noises.  a lot. over and over. she wants ice cream. loudly.  Mom ignores her.  Grandma tells her to stop.  Grandma tells her stop again. Then Grandma turns to me and says "You tell her to stop".
Me: "uh....."
Grandma:  "do it!  she'll listen to you!"
Me: [thinking it's not really my place to be disciplining here] "can you please stop... thanks."
Girl stops whining.

The power of being a nurse?  Maybe it was the princess scrubs.....  I didn't know I had it in me.  Now if only my own future children will obey so promptly.

Second best quote was from a young mom who said to me "I like you.  You make lists".  I was writing down some of her questions on the white board.   It made me smile inside.  And I think we bonded.

Banana Bread


A while back, two people I don't know very well, did something nice for me.  It wasn't extreme, but I know they went at least a little bit out of their way to pick us up/drop us off at the airport.  I was extremely grateful for the small act of kindness, and could not think of quite the right way to repay these generous souls.  I thought of baking a loaf of bread, but I am still fairly new at baking bread and it doesn't always turn out perfect, and it's kind of dense, and what if they don't like it..... but in the freezer that day I spied the solution: bananas.  The perfect idea was formed: Banana bread.  I made two batches of banana bread (a classic recipe from my mother which I know is good) and two somewhat cute and crafty thank you cards.  I was proud of myself for creating such substantial homemade items (bread and cards).  The kitchen smelled wonderful, and I was tempted to save a loaf for my husband and me.  But I was excited to share as well.  Of course I worried all day about the almost-burned spot, how to wrap them so they still look cute but you can tell what it is inside, whether these people even like banana bread, or if they have allergies to fruit?  I finally faced my fears and just delivered them.  Two loaves of bread. One apartment complex.  Two families.  Done.  And you know what?  I felt great.  I hadn't done a simple service like that in a very long time.  Perhaps since getting married all my service has focused on my husband (not a bad thing), but it honestly felt GOOD to get outside myself and put in some work and effort to really do something for someone else, outside my family.  I truly felt a warm tingle start to spread across my body and a smile across my face and concluded: I need to do this more often.

phamily photos

Here a few pix from our Murray clan photo shoot.  Look at how much we've grown!
Location:  Anacortes, Washington
AUGUST 2010




Summer's End

Sadly, Sadly, even the best of summers seem to come to an end.  This year's was marked by our last weekend of non-stop fun (for a while).  We seem to be devoid of pictures, so I'll try to describe good mental pictures.  

Saturday we drove up to Logan.  The main reason for this is to help fulfill our goal of attending every temple in Utah before we leave the state.  After Logan we only have two left!  (the "off-the-beaten-path" two) We also hung out with a young couple Bjorn knew from his mission:  homemade pizza, ice cream sundaes, and a card game I'l rather not talk about.  Sunday we did our usual church activities (which include much busyness for Bjorn) and joined the Sunday dinner club in Springville for a BBQ (more info. on this amazing group of select individuals to be forthcoming).  We saw another friend in Provo, then made it to Grandma Bu's house that night.
Monday was jam packed with jet skiing at Jordanelle (I become "licensed"), a bike ride to bridal veil falls (with my mountain bike crazy sisters), and a BBQ/bonfire at the AF house.  Friends and family galore, good food, good times.

Bjorn started school today and is already a little stressed about his math class.  I'm just looking forward to getting one more semester under our belt.  Bring it on!

Sailing the San Juans

The pictures from our epic trip have been floating the web for weeks, it's time I give some details of this one of a kind Murray family reunion.
First and foremost- I was just glad to get 2 weeks off work.  Taking a break from work really does wonders for the soul.  And Washington is the perfect place to visit for this type of time off.
All the Murray's (11 of us now!) made it to Anacortes by Saturday the 14th of August.  We packed in a BBQ, family pictures (poor Kacy), a bike ride, a few games of settlers, church, two boat debriefings  a "captain's fireside", a little bit of sleep a lot of ice cream before departing from our respective marinas on Monday morning.  Michael, Steph, Erin, Alex, and Kacy took our boat, the MurrMaid, while the rest of us were the crew of "Surprise" a 39' beneteau we chartered for the week.

We stopped at Cyprus Island for the lunch the first day (the Surprise had all the provisions, so if the other crew wanted food, they had to find us) and hiked around the edge of the island for a bit.  We made it to Rosario resort on Orcas Island that night and stayed for the next day as well.  There is a small marina, but the resort is awesome!  It's this old historic mansion turned into a nice hotel.... with quite a few pools and a daily organ concert.  After departing Rosario we took Jones Island by storm- playing wiffle ball and exploring the island- then docked at Roche Harbor on San Juan Island.  Thursday was rest day at Roche:  resting in these terms means playing at the resort and not actually sailing.  Tennis took precedent, as well as a naps, kayak and dinghy rides, window shopping, bocce ball, and a fabulous performance of Henvy V by Island Stage Left  at an outdoor theater.  That was definitely a highlight.
Friday we stopped at Friday Harbor to stock up on groceries as well as check out the lavender shop and bookstore (my new favorite place at FH).  We moored to a buoy and rafted the ships together that night near Lopez Island.  We had a great family fireside that evening, and sailed home the next day!


Roche Harbor at night
relaxing in the "therapy pool" 


Bjorn really is holding a live crab in the above picture.  He and I put the crab pot out and then he went with others to retrieve it. It was the first time I've ever been crabbing!  Bjorn showed us all how to kill it  (quite horrific actually) then we cooked it and enjoyed the meat (those of us brave enough to try- my family's still not big on seafood).  I actually liked it! 
We both learned a lot about sailing: which lines to pull when, reading charts, steering and navigating.  It was fun to pass the MurrMaid when we were under sail, but they always caught up to us when motoring.  We all got great at docking (the most stressful part of sailing) and pulling away from port. 
The family togetherness was good. It definitely feels different to have suddenly have 3 extra people.  But we love them all.  Gavin is especially attached to Bjorn.  He thinks Bjorn is the one sane person in the family.  Our nightly games of cards, beat the intro, talent show, and illustrations probably helped verify that.